“Just because you were born with a silver spoon in your mouth, doesn’t mean you’ll die in a silver coffin.” – AK
If you blame others and the state you were born in as your defeat in life, then you don’t deserve success at all.
Let me explain myself.
If you want more than what you already have in life, you should avoid feeling comfort until you get to where you want to be. When you are comfortable in the state you’re in, you let yourself accept who you are that moment and deny the fact that you genuinely want to improve in life. Blaming your background and the circumstances that you grew up gives you a sense of comfort. You give yourself an excuse for the way that you are, and success doesn’t see any excuse. You don’t have the motivation to make a name for yourself and become something more.
Being lower and middle class has its advantages. Growing up middle class, it gave me motivation to do something amazing with my life and become a professional at something just so I can give my parents the life of upperclassmen. Living the lifestyle of someone who has already reached the pinnacle of success leads you with a lack of motivation and a lack of gratification because it was your parents/guardians’ success and never yours. Building something from the ground up has its own reward that a person who was handed everything cannot ever get.